You have a single female friend, and she happens to be a friend of yours at work. She would like you to meet her. But, there’s this thing that has happened in your life that has made you wonder whether she is ready to date you. You know how it feels to be the guy who is always in the same company of hot babes, but you’re not even getting dates. Now, no matter how nervous you are, prepare to get out of your friend’s zone and learn how to get her to date you through these 5 simple tips.
- First and foremost, you have to ask yourself if you have fallen into your friend’s zone. If not, then congratulations, you’re already halfway there. If you have, however, seen yourself as a mere friend for too long, then it’s time to change that perception. Begin by creating intimacy. Dive into her life and get to know her friends and family. Get to know all of her male friends as well. By getting to know these people, you will be able to learn what the women of your friend’s life like. After gathering all the information you need to know, relate to your friend the things that separate you mentally and emotionally from her friends.
- Flirt with your friend. Although you have been her friend for a long time now, it is inevitable that you have feelings for your friend. It might be a bit awkward at the start, but sooner or later you will have to talk about your feelings. If you ever feel like you are in the dreaded “we’re just friends” zone, make sure you set things straight with your friend. If it ever feels like you’re falling into the “we’re just friends” zone and you can’t figure out why, ask her about that. Crack open an honest, open discussion about the state of your friendship.
- Don’t worry about your friend having a boyfriend, when the time is right tell her about the “thing” you know about her that makes her so different from other girls. Maybe it’s her very figured stomach, long hair or sexy laugh. Whatever it might be, try to figure it out. If you’re lucky enough, your friend might even tell you what she likes about her boyfriend.
- Be a part of her wedding plans. In our world, relationships aren’t as important as they used to be. If you want a friend to become your girlfriend, you are going to have to at least be emotionally involved when it comes to her life’s greatest events. Be a part of her wedding plans, even if you think it’s pathetic. If you do, you will be able to win her heart eventually or get her to become your official girlfriend anyway. Also, try to get yourself invited to her future weddings. Who knows, you just might be the best groomsman there is!
- Relax. Take a break from your usual male behavior Single Female Friend. Put on a tie or a suit and tie, and entertain yourself. Do something to relax. Women love to be pampered, see? Brings us to the next tip:
- Entertain your best friend. A best friend is someone who isn’t going to judge you, and you are always going to be able to turn to on those stressful times. If you’re not the type of friend who can put himself aside, then it’s time you started becoming one, girl!
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